The Leadership Cosmos: 25 Years of Expanding Possibilities

Session #1: Centering Joy and Love in Times of Crisis

“Radical self-love is the opposite of selfishness” - Shiree

Session Recap

This interactive virtual webinar Iman Mills Gordon & Shiree Teng. explored our liberatory framework, informed by critical love theory, that positions joy and love as essential drivers of resilience, connection, and meaningful change, especially when facing adversity.

Joy and love are not just emotions but essential leadership tools that sustain movements, build resilience, and create cultures of belonging and care. They are also at the core of liberatory leadership. The essence of what differentiates liberatory leadership from traditionally oppressive systems.  Systems of oppression thrive on extraction, burnout, and fear—they teach us that urgency, scarcity, and suffering are necessary for change. Choosing joy and love disrupts these patterns and reclaims our right to well-being, creativity, and connection.

“The moment we choose love, we begin to move towards freedom, to act in ways that liberate ourselves and others.” -bell hooks

Speakers

Shiree Teng is a community organizer, storyteller, and healer who believes that love and courage will lead the way towards our collective liberation. An immigrant kid who grew up organizing, she has never stopped.

Grounded in Radical LOVE, Shiree challenges the burnout culture pervasive in the nonprofit sector. She is a truth-teller and healer who names what others are afraid to say, while giving leaders tools to reimagine the work together. With deep insights into race, class, gender, and power dynamics, she brings a rare lived understanding to her work, inspiring countless leaders to own their power and tell their stories.

Supporting Materials

Reflection Exercise

What is the trash in your life that you need to compost?

  • The first question is, what choices did you make today that disrupted your own oppression and joy?

  • Number two. What are your stories that are about your power and joy? To what extent have you owned them? To what extent have you named them? What is one thing you might try?

  • Number three, boundaries. How healthy are they? How strong are they? How well have you communicated them to others?

  • Number four is Joy, to what extent did I allow, invite, and practice joy today? And what can I still do with the remaining minutes of my day?

  • And then, fifth is my dark and my light. What am I learning about myself today? How did I shine? How did I hide my light? To what extent have I embraced my own light and dark?

We collectively created this Joy and Love playlist during our session — thank you to everyone who contributed! If you’d like to add your own music that brings you joy or reminds you of love, feel free to email us at [email protected], and we’ll add it to the playlist.